Gloria Steinem Quotes Feminism, Writing, Activism

Feminist and journalist, Gloria Steinem has been a key figure in the womens movement since 1969. She founded Ms. magazine, starting in 1972. Her good looks and quick, humorous responses made her the medias favorite spokesperson for feminism, but she was often attacked by the radical elements in the womens movement for being too middle-class-oriented. She was an outspoken advocate for the Equal Rights Amendment and helped found the National Womens Political Caucus. Selected Gloria Steinem Quotations This is no simple reform. It really is a revolution. Sex and race because they are easy and visible differences have been the primary ways of organizing human beings into superior and inferior groups and into the cheap labour in which this system still depends. We are talking about a society in which there will be no roles other than those chosen or those earned. We are really talking about humanism. I have met brave women who are exploring the outer edge of possibility, with no history to guide them and a courage to make themselves vulnerable that I find moving beyond the words to express it.   [from the 1972 preview issue of Ms. Magazine] [About Ms. Magazines founding]  I backed into it. I  felt very strongly there should be a feminist magazine. But I didnt want to start it myself. I wanted to be a  freelance writer. Id never had a job, never worked in an office, never worked with a group before. It just  happened. I always wanted to be a writer. I got into activism just because it needed to be done. The first problem for all of us, men and women, is not to learn, but to unlearn. Weve begun to raise daughters more like sons... but few have the courage to raise our sons more like our daughters. We can tell our values by looking at our checkbook stubs. Women may be the one group that grows more radical with age. But the problem is that when I go around and speak on campuses, I still dont get young men standing up and saying, How can I combine career and family? Now we have the dreams and tools to move beyond words and history, beyond the possible to the imagined, and into a life both ancient and new, where we will look back to see our present dreams trailing behind us as markers of where we have been. [1994] Each of us has an inner compass that helps us know where to go and what to do. Its signals are interest, the joy of understanding for its own sake, and the sort of fear that is a sign of being in new territory -- and therefore of growth. A liberated woman is one who has sex before marriage and a job after. Someone asked me why women dont gamble as much as men do, and I gave the commonsensical reply that we dont have as much money. That was a true and incomplete answer. In fact, womens total instinct for gambling is satisfied by marriage. We know that we can do what men can do, but we still dont know that men can do what women can do. Thats absolutely crucial. We cant go on doing two jobs. Some of us are becoming the men we wanted to marry. Most women are one man away from welfare. [or]  Most of us are only one man away from welfare. [the second is more likely the original] [About Geraldine Ferraros candidacy:] What has the womens movement learned from her candidacy for vice president? Never get married. [After her marriage at age 66 to David Bale]  If I had got married when I was supposed to have in my 20s, I would have lost almost all my civil  rights. I wouldnt have had my own name, my own legal residence, my own credit rating. I would have had to get  a husband to sign off on a bank loan, or starting a business. Its changed profoundly. If women are supposed to be less rational and more emotional at the beginning of our menstrual cycle when the female hormone is at its lowest level, then why isnt it logical to say that, in those few days, women behave the most like the way men behave all month long? The truth is that, if men could menstruate, the power justifications would go on and on. Law and justice are not always the same. When they arent, destroying the law may be the first step toward changing it. Most womens magazines simply try to mold women into bigger and better consumers. I have met brave women who are exploring the outer edge of human possibility, with no history to guide them, and with a courage to make themselves vulnerable that I find moving beyond words. If the shoe doesnt fit, must we change the foot? The truth will set you free. But first, it will piss you off. Power can be taken, but not given. The process of the taking is empowerment in itself. A pedestal is as much a prison as any small, confined space. The family is the basic cell of government: it is where we are trained to believe that we are human beings or that we are chattel, it is where we are trained to see the sex and race divisions and become callous to injustice even if it is done to ourselves, to accept as biological a full system of authoritarian government. Happy or unhappy, families are all mysterious. We have only to imagine how differently we would be described -- and will be, after our deaths -- by each of the family members who believe they know us. I dont breed well in captivity. Childbirth is more admirable than conquest, more amazing than self-defense, and as courageous as either one. Most American children suffer too much mother and too little father. The authority of any governing institution must stop at its citizens skin. Without leaps of imagination, or dreaming, we lose the excitement of possibilities. Dreaming, after all, is a form of planning. One thing is clear: The human mind can imagine both how to break self-esteem and how to nurture it -- and imagining anything is the first step toward creating it. A woman reading Playboy feels a little like a Jew reading a Nazi manual. For women... bras, panties, bathing suits, and other stereotypical gear are visual reminders of a commercial, idealized feminine image that our real and diverse female bodies cant possibly fit. Without these visual references, each individual womans body demands to be accepted on its own terms. We stop being comparatives. We begin to be unique. If you let Barnum Bailey interpret a plot by Stendhal, it might turn out to be something like the 1972 Democratic convention. [About Dr. Ruth Westheimer:]  She has become the  Julia Child  of sex. [About Marilyn Monroe:]  [I]ts hard for men to admit that a sex goddess didnt  enjoy sex.... Its part of the desire to believe she was murdered -- the same cultural impulse that says if shes a  sex goddess she had to have enjoyed sex doesnt want to believe she killed herself, doesnt want to accept her  unhappiness. If you add her years of movie stardom to the years since her death, Marilyn Monroe has been a part of our lives and imaginations for nearly four decades. That’s a very long time for one celebrity to survive in a throwaway culture. When the past dies there is mourning, but when the future dies, our imaginations are compelled to carry it on. Planning ahead is a measure of class. The rich and even the middle class plan for future generations, but the poor can plan ahead only a few weeks or days. Writing is the only thing that, when I do it, I dont feel I should be doing something else. I think we deserve to be proud that so many Smith girls of the 1950s survived educations that trained us to fit the world, or at least to fear the conflict that comes from trying the make the world fit us. From pacifist to terrorist, each person condemns violence -- and then adds one cherished case in which it may be justified. No man can call himself liberal, or radical, or even a conservative advocate of fair play, if his work depends in any way on the unpaid or underpaid labor of women at home, or in the office. Living in India made me understand that a white minority of the world has spent centuries conning us into thinking a white skin makes people superior, even though the only thing it really does is make them more subject to ultraviolet rays and wrinkles. The only thing I cant stand is discomfort. For much of the female half of the world, food is the first signal of our inferiority. It lets us know that our own families may consider female bodies to be less deserving, less needy, less valuable. Evil is obvious only in retrospect. The first wave was about women gaining a legal  identity, and it took 150 years. The second wave of feminism is about social equality. Weve  come a long way, but its only been 25 years.... Women used to say, I am not a feminist, but.... Now they say, I  am a feminist, but....